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YOUR "BIG DREAMS" ARE EMBARRASSINGLY SMALL
You're not playing it safe. You're playing yourself.

That thing you call your "big dream"?
It's actually your safety net with better marketing.
I know that stings. Good. It should.
Because while you've been calling mediocrity "realistic," someone with half your skill is living the life you're afraid to claim.
They didn't get lucky. They didn't get special treatment.
They just stopped lying to themselves about what they actually wanted.
You want to know the truth? Your dreams aren't too big. They're embarrassingly small.
That "promotion" you're chasing? It's just a prettier cage.
That "someday" business? You've been planning it for three years and haven't started.
That "big move" you keep talking about? You're waiting for permission that's never coming.
Here's what happened:
Somewhere along the way, you confused survival with success. Comfort with accomplishment. "Getting by" with "making it."
And now you're so used to thinking small that you've convinced yourself it's strategic.
It's not strategic. It's scared.
THE DISRUPTION
Right now. Grab a pen.
Write down your biggest goal. The one you tell people about. The one that makes you feel ambitious.
Got it?
Now multiply it by 10.
Feel that tightness in your chest? That voice saying "that's impossible"?
That's your self-concept begging you not to grow.
That's the part of you that would rather stay small and safe than risk becoming everything you're capable of.
But here's the thing—you already know you're capable of more.
You've felt it. In quiet moments. In flashes of possibility. In dreams you won't admit to having.
The question isn't whether you can do it. The question is whether you'll let yourself want it.
THE HARD TRUTH
"Someone with half your skill is living the life you're afraid to claim."
They're not smarter. They're not more talented. They're not more deserving.
They just stopped negotiating with their potential.
They stopped asking for permission to want more.
They stopped pretending that "realistic" was anything other than code for "scared."
What's your move?
Are you going to spend another day defending small dreams?
Or are you ready to admit that the only thing standing between you and the life you actually want is the story you keep telling yourself about why it's "not realistic"?
Five minutes is all it takes to shatter a ceiling.
Start now.

What would your 10x goal actually be? Don't overthink it. Just write it down and feel what happens in your body.